Paige’s journey to empowered intimacy

My parent's divorce as a preteen shaped my confused understanding of love and relationships. I navigated years of serial monogamy and dating—a lonely cycle of disappointments and heartbreak. I had never deeply experienced the pull to become someone’s wife but I did certainly feel the pull and societal pressure to experience Motherhood.  

In my late thirties, desperate to become a mother, I pushed a reluctant partner toward starting a family. To salvage our relationship and give me the opportunity to become a mother, he suggested that we open our relationship by exploring polyamory.

This shift turned my world upside down. I dove fearlessly into exploring open relationship structures, jealousy, attachment patterns, and childhood trauma. I questioned everything I thought I knew about intimacy, relationships and motherhood. 

By exploring a dominant submissive power dynamic, I began to uncover the depths of my sexual desire with curiosity and acceptance. I welcomed the pleasures of enjoying many lovers, while maintaining my freedom and independence. 

Through endless introspection, reflection and envisioning my future, I realized that my time to become a mother had passed. Within this space, I began to recognize the endless opportunities life without children could offer.  

My curiosity led me wholeheartedly to Somatica®Sex and Relationship Coach training, during a time when I had transitioned away from teaching children in Montessori schools.  I could no longer play the role of people pleaser “Miss Paige” without experiencing significant mental and emotional burnout.

Becoming part of the Somatica® community and undergoing the training has felt like coming home to myself. I'm actively practicing empowered dating, designing relationship structures that suit my needs and building a business that turns me on to my core.

You can find the courage to uncover your authentic voice and unapologetically follow your inner compass—to guide you towards enjoying the best sex and intimacy of your lives!

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Somatica® Approach to Intimacy

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“Somatica® blends neuroscience, attachment theory, emotional intelligence, and somatic practices into a structured framework for transformational sex and relationship coaching.”
— Dr. Danielle Harel and Celeste Hirschman

What Is Somatica®?

Somatica® is a philosophy and a set of tools that helps people have the most fulfilling intimacy possible both with themselves and others. romance and intimacy in our work together

Intimacy is not just about sex, it is the process of gaining awareness and understanding of others and yourself. When you honestly look at all the parts of yourself, both amazing and challenging, you are becoming more intimate with yourself.

Approaching intimacy with a sense of curiosity, self- compassion and non judgement creates more spaciousness. Intimacy has two important components:

1) Vulnerably showing yourself to another person

2) Truly seeing others as they are and offering space for them to show up vulnerably as well.

What Is Intimacy?

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What People Are Saying

  • Laura Jimenez

    “Working with Paige has been deeply transformative. She helped me dig into where I first heard about sex through childhood work. Little by little, we uncovered how some early experiences had kept me from fully enjoying my sensuality. I love how she starts most sessions with breathwork for grounding and setting the tone for our sessions. I appreciate how she gently pushes my triggers, helping me acknowledge and release discomfort in my body. This process has allowed me to move forward, allowing me to let go of what no longer serves me and create my ideal sexual adventure!”

  • Cassey

    Paige is a sweet soft spot to land. Whether you show up to the session happy, sad, angry or horny, she is there to meet you for all of it. Her playful and curious energy allowed me to truly open up to her in so many ways. I’ve gained so much confidence in my sexual desires since working with her. She has a beautiful way of helping you break through shame and really own what is true for you. I am grateful I came to work with her during a time that I was single and will likely be a return client as my love life unfolds. She makes ‘doing the work’ fun, easy and sexy!

  • Cavalo E

    Paige’s presence gave me a sense of safety. Her soothing, calm voice was the key to that. She has a great sense of empathy and understanding that made me feel comfortable enough to dig deep.

  • Ana Lapointe

    Paige creates a safe and nurturing environment for women to connect, share and grow. Her ability to listen and guide with compassion and wisdom is truly remarkable. I’ve experienced first hand the transformative power of her workshops. I highly recommend her services to anyone seeking support and community.

  • Bradley Tye

    Paige, you are so passionate about what you do and life in general, my admiration of your beautiful heart and soul knows no bounds. I am so grateful for the laughter, tears, and playfulness we have shared in our sessions together.

    You've helped me become more open with myself and others, I feel more 'me' than ever. I owe that in no small part to you. If you're reading this and wondering if you should give it a try, the answer is "YES"! Let consensual curiosity win against your fears, insecurities, and doubts. You can thank me later <3

    Love to all who need it, and thanks to all who give it!

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